A lot happened yesterday, some of which made me realise a couple of things about somethings... Primarily, i realised that its definitely NOT okay just to get bored of something. I pride myself on being very straightforward and kinda blunt, and i like to say stuff like it is. But its not supposed to be done that way all the time. You have to sugar-coat stuff most of the time, and you just can't let people know what you're feeling, because that kind of information leakage comes and bites you in the ass- repeatedly!
Its not okay to just lose interest and get bored of something. When that happens, you should always ask yourself why you're bored, and hopefully you'll come up with something that keeps you interested. Because being straightforward is one thing, and whining like a bitch is another- being an ass is another, but we'll get to that some other day. Spouting optimism isn't really my thing, but i suppose you have to have some of it to stay happy.
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i can relate to that.
i also pride myself on being straightforward and blunt but then sometimes i wonder if the people who put on a complete different face when they're dealing with people are better off. they play with words, you cant read their faces and because of that they're successful in having their way a lot of times. i, for one, cant do that. so instead of sugar coating anything i just keep quiet.
gaspness!! thats exactly why i dont talk too often too. I was never too verbose anyway, and my quietness carries on even when i'm around people i'm comfortable with, but yea, thats almost exactly why i don't talk too much. i mean i don't always have nice stuff to say, i'm sorry- i would've said deal with it too, but its usually me who has to deal with it, not anyone else...
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